Don't forget your Dad! He wants to be involved in your wedding plans too! I came across a list in a Bride's Magazine of 25 secrets to keeping everyone happy, and here's number #10:
"Ask your dad's opinion about something important - the wine, the menu, whether Aunt Ellie will be offended if the band plays gangsta rap, whatever - so he knows that he's a vital part of the day and not just a check-writing machine"
Bride's Magazine July/August 2007